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Maggie Bradford-Butcher's avatar

Oh 100% it’s easier to act on your values when you have more money. As someone who went through a drastic collapse of earnings and then explosion of earning in two years (hello surprise pregnancy and 4 month NICU stay!), it’s so much easier to act on values when you have more money. Like the New Yorker article says, I’ll still have a decent life if everything falls, so I can look at purchase options through a lens of values instead of pure price.

I do think the mistake is thinking it’s merely the money that gives you the ability to act on values, when money amplifies whatever values you currently hold. And if you’ve never sat down and defined those before, you can immediately get inundated with lifestyle inflation, too-generic money advice, and keeping-up-with-the-Joneses noise that can crowd out those values when suddenly you have more money than you spend on necessities. It’s easier to define your values when you don’t have as many things vying for your money all at once.

Allison Tait's avatar

I wonder about the burn-out memoirs. It's one more variation of "the workplace is broken" theme, along with some of the tradwife content. I'm all for the idea that we need to have lives that are not dedicated to work, and I absolutely know that the workplace will not love you back. But someone needs to stay! We still need to fix the work and the workplace and not just leave (which is impossible for most people anyway) or even just quiet quit.

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